Adults play in their own way, and for many adults this means sex. Sex toys are aptly named as the kind of toys that adults play with and who would have believe that a simple coffee date would lead to my discovery of these fascinating aids.

To me, a “coffee date” has always been a euphemism for more than just a date, made to seem innocuous. However, it has become the acceptable euphemism for meeting anyone for the first time and when a new person recently came into my life, I agreed to this “coffee date” even though I don’t drink coffee!

When Gary and I met on our coffee date, we immediately clicked, and I didn’t really go with an open mind, but there you have it. Soon we were actually “seeing” each other and a growing sense of intimacy started to pervade our relationship. We were definitely taking things to the next level, and pretty quickly too.

Soon our conversations turned to sex and I actually felt quite comfortable speaking with him about this. I had not really ever been this open before but he made me comfortable and soon the conversation led to Sex toys. Not something I had ever contemplated or been very adventurous about.

In fact it was totally boring and this was one of the reasons why I had seen fit to call it a day!

From the very word go, Gary and I hade embarked upon a journey of discovery together and from this honesty, we launched out exploration of sex toys. It is hard to believe that a subject like this could be meaningful, but it is.

He is definitely of the new generation of men who believe that women should be pleasured before the male partner gets his satisfaction. We had some pretty good and very funny shopping sprees.

I was a bit shy in the beginning and didn’t fancy walking into a sex shop, so we shopped online. Then we discovered a new way to add to our collection. Adult party plan! I have hosted a few parties and grown a whole new circle of like-minded friends, as well as added to my collection of adult toys, lingerie, lotions potions and all kinds of goodies.

What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!

 

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